At this festive time of year where family come together to be with one another I would like to take the time to dedicate this post to my parents and my brothers, and also to 3 very important people in my life whose birthdays are on the 9th (The Hazle Twins) and 15th (Dr Faye Gordon) respectively.
On Monday of last week I received a message via the social networking tool that everyone loves to hate... no not that one. This tool thankfully doesn’t wake you up in the morning with a Twitter or a Tweet. I am talking about the granddaddy of social networking tools.
Anywho courtesy of a remodelled Facebook – Marelize, a friend through flight, form Daegu got hold of me and invited me, and other Saffa’s longing for a taste of home, to join her at her friends flat for a taste of home and some “oorspronklike lekker Suid Afrikaanse kos”. Eventual attendees were:
Myself, Lisa (with whom I flew to Korea); Andre (who knows Marelize); Adean (my roommate from orientation), his friend Wynand and another of his friends/girlfriend? (status to me was unknown but I’m guessing so from all the hand holding) Cassie, who hails from The Midwest (I think Iowa) in the States. Oh and let me not forget our gracious host’s Leon and his wife Santjie, and chef extraordinaire – Marelize.
The event itself was arranged to mark 2 days both occuring on the 16th of December: The Day of Reconciliation and Hug A South African Day.
From Left to right: Adean, Cassie, Andrea (notice the Cheetah's Jersey!), and Wynand |
The event itself was arranged to mark 2 days both occuring on the 16th of December: The Day of Reconciliation and Hug A South African Day.
On Saturday morning I watched (through streaming over the net) Aus slowly murder England in the 3rd Ashes test, being played in Perth, and then I climbed on my train at about 14:30 bound for Daegu. The weather over the past weekend was amazing – comparatively of course. The temperature ranged from about 8C at night to about 12 during the day. My plan was to wonder around Daegu and buy Christmas gifts for our Christmas party at the end of the week, but the shops I was looking for were rather difficult to find. I ended up just walking around town for an hour before making my way to the subway station where I was meeting Marelize. Through various circumstantial occurances I waited at the subways stop for about an hour before Marelize arrived. In that time I just leaned agains a support pillar and watched the world go by. I had my MP3 player playing pleasantly loud Music and began to let my mind wonder around the subject of human movement and habitual behaviours. Watching the throngs of commuters enter and exit the subway trains, the rushing and strolling to meet the trains on the platforms, with Muse’s latest single “Neutron Start Collision” blaring in my ears...
Yes I know the birthplace and existence of this track is from a very regrettable source – namely a certain 2nd film sequel to a very hatred inducing, sparkly vampire series of books that were made into a dreadful series of movies)
But that aside it is a really catchy track and provide sufficient power to be the soundtrack to my wondering mind
But that aside it is a really catchy track and provide sufficient power to be the soundtrack to my wondering mind
... I started to formulate a little poem in my mind to describe my thoughts. It progresses thusly:
I call it: Like Lemmings...
Like Lemmings...
*Press play*
The sound in my ears illuminates my surroundings.
I stand.
I watch.
I see dozens of lemmings shuffling into and out of giant metal boxes.
The air clears.
Thoughts surge through my mind:
Who are they? Where are they going? Why do they follow so blindly?
The answers to these questions only they know.
Another metal box emerges from the darkness and a new set of dozens disappear as fast as they appeared.
The air clears, the mind clears.
An endless cycle as if set to shuffle, repeat all.
Like lemmings,
Only they know...
*Volume up*
Following such a deep read here is a little something to bring a smile and lighten things up – I played Merry Christmas Mr Bean as a treat for my last lesson of the semester and this bit is one that I particularly enjoy:
So... how are you feeling? A little happier? Slightly philosophical yet your minds cleared of thought? Relaxed?
Good. That is the perfect frame of mind with which to read the rest of this post...
As I listened to my music (and completely zoned out, as only my friends know I can, when my ears are filled with little plastic plugs explelling the wave form we know as Sound) I did notice a chap who arrived at the platform around the same time as I did. He too was leaning against a pillar. Waiting. Much like me.
In a phone call to Marelize to see where she was, she had told me the Lisa and Andre (the latter of whom I had never met) were waiting at the station as well. I hadn’t seen Lisa and assumed she would be standing with Andre so I figured that this other chap was waiting for someone else. As time pasted and 15min became 30min I noticed the lining and collar of this gent’s shirt.
We were asked in our invite to this event to wear something South African. All I had brought with me was my green Bafana Bafana beanie, so that is what I wore. This lining and collar though, looked distinctly like the lining of a Springbok Jersey and if not that then certainly of a South African provincial Rugby Jersey. I thought *might this be Andre?* but stopped short of going over to ask for no other reason than because I lost my normally unflappable nerve. Lisa eventually arrived and she pointed out that the gent in question was indeed probably Andre, so we went and joined him. Marelise arrived shortly after and it was then that I became a small moment of amusement. Sticking out of the top of my backpack was a whisk which (along with a can opener that was much easier to use than my current one) I had bought when I arrived in Daegu that evening. This was very amusing to the girls. Cé la vie.
We all then walked to the venue for the evening’s “jol” and were noticed by a passing taxi containing Adean, Cassie and Wynand who pointed out that we had about a 6-7 min walk in front of us and they would see us there.
Leon and Santjie were very welcoming and gracious hosts and overall it was a grand evening.
On the menu was “Vetkoek en Mince”, “Pannekoek”, “Biltong”, and Ghostpops (Supplied by Lisa). There were also 2 bottles of wine: Obikwe-sweet red (which I brought and very much enjoyed) and a Nederburg Pinotage (Which Lisa brought-which was also very much enjoyed).
On the airwaves, streamed live form the Mother City, was Western Cape’s finest (The merits of this musical entertainment are still to be decided considering I am a guy who lives across the Vaal) – Kfm. The talk was about anything and everything: from of course our South Korean expeience, what we like about SK and miss about SA, the reasons there are (apparently) a large number of South African’s who emigrated, returning to SA... as well as the South African education system and language policies within it. Amongst this there was a great deal of linguistic exchange “in die taal”. Lisa, Myself and Cassie are not altogether fluent in said tongue (Cassie not at all familiar with it), but Lisa and I could at least both understand what was being said.
On the menu was “Vetkoek en Mince”, “Pannekoek”, “Biltong”, and Ghostpops (Supplied by Lisa). There were also 2 bottles of wine: Obikwe-sweet red (which I brought and very much enjoyed) and a Nederburg Pinotage (Which Lisa brought-which was also very much enjoyed).
On the airwaves, streamed live form the Mother City, was Western Cape’s finest (The merits of this musical entertainment are still to be decided considering I am a guy who lives across the Vaal) – Kfm. The talk was about anything and everything: from of course our South Korean expeience, what we like about SK and miss about SA, the reasons there are (apparently) a large number of South African’s who emigrated, returning to SA... as well as the South African education system and language policies within it. Amongst this there was a great deal of linguistic exchange “in die taal”. Lisa, Myself and Cassie are not altogether fluent in said tongue (Cassie not at all familiar with it), but Lisa and I could at least both understand what was being said.
Above: Marelize Prep'ing the Dough for the "Vetkoek: Below: Lisa Prep'ing the Mince |
It came time to head home butfor me that was not an option as I had missed both the last train and the last bus back to Yeongcheon. Adean offered his floor for me to sleep on and I was prepared enough that I had a sleeping bag and pj’s so it was overall a very fun evening and hopefully I would see everyone again soon.
This coming week see’s Christmas upon us and Yoengcheon is playing host to a nice little get together of Sandy (Our Hostess); Me (the man with the accommodation); Colleen; Melinda; Courtney and Sam. Dan is not available and Ashli is off to Seoul so sadly whey will not be with us. Still looking forward to it. Happy Holidays everyone!
Andre and Wynand horsing around as we headed home |
This coming week see’s Christmas upon us and Yoengcheon is playing host to a nice little get together of Sandy (Our Hostess); Me (the man with the accommodation); Colleen; Melinda; Courtney and Sam. Dan is not available and Ashli is off to Seoul so sadly whey will not be with us. Still looking forward to it. Happy Holidays everyone!
Stay tuned to Geoff’s Asian Adventure for more soon...